Friday, September 30, 2011

In the end

In the end, you get what you deserve.

People say it is impossible a relationship between rich and poor people to go ahead. Who is rich would get bothered with the lack of good manners and the self-indulgence face small things. Who is poor would get embarrassed face to the rich vocabulary, cultural experience and a totally opposite lifestyle. But if there is not the willingness of building something together and overcome the social barriers and the inferiority complex, poor people will end up with the poor ones and rich people will end up with the rich ones.

People say it is impossible a relationship between pretty and ugly people to go ahead. Who is pretty would get bothered of not having a “presentable” one to his parents and friends. Who is ugly would have jealousy and insecurity crisis frequently due to his appearance complex. But if there is not the willingness of building something together and overcome the barriers of the beauty standard and the lack of confidence on yourself and on your partner, ugly people will end up with the ugly ones and pretty people will end up with pretty ones.

People say it is impossible a relationship between out of the closet guys and in the closet guys to go ahead. Who is out would get bothered whenever he feels he imposes embarrassment to his boyfriend. Who is in would get embarrassed to show affection in public and come out homosexual to his parents and friends. But if there is not the willingness of building something together and overcome the barriers of homophobia and rejection complex, in the closet guys will end up with in the closet ones (or even by themselves) and out of the closet guys will end up with out of the closet ones.

People say it is impossible a relationship between worthy people and idiot people to go ahead. Who is worthy would get bothered by the lack of honesty and someone who values him. Who is an idiot would miss the liberty of getting no strings attached lovers to be able to discard them when it is convenient for him. But if there is not the willingness of building something together and overcome the barriers of selfishness and lust, worthy people will end up with the worthy ones and idiot people will end up with idiot ones.

That is the way the things end up. In the end, you get what you deserve. If a relationship did not go ahead as you wanted, it is because it was not supposed to. It is very common for the people to end up with their equals because the way is easier: they have things in common and live similar realities. The opposite to it would require a fight few are those who are willing to fight for. Because when you really like someone, you go for it and face whatever it comes because your love is bigger than your fear. And when you do not, you give up earlier and leave the ways opened to each one to get what they give.

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